Mr Jay

This is The Selfish Podcast, where we share all things self. Interviewing guests on their life, their self developments as well as my personal journey and experiences through life, from depression to joy, self abuse to self love. I share openly with a full heart of compassion and love for all, in the wish that […]

Mr. Jay is a M.A.T. & Ministry Certified, Professional Relationship Coach, Certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner, Certified Special Education Teacher, Author, Air Force/Army Veteran, Inspirational/Public Speaker, Activist, Wedding Officiant, Adoptive Parent. He is also a certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner.  Betrayal Trauma is trauma suffered when a person (on whom you thought you could rely, and deeply

Struggles, Failures, and Wins. Now more than ever before, we need stories that inspire hope. The stories you tell to your children and grandchildren, your neighbors, and your customers are stories of how your life experience mattered. Telling stories brings people together. In this episode, our desire is to inspire the listener that all life

In this conversation I talk about trauma, death, faith, betrayal and techniques to help hack life.

This show is a powerful story about Tears to Transformation.  With live shows, it’s not easy to give a description because you never know where one question will lead. Mr. Jay has a story that literally broke my heart. After years of drugs, alcohol and special education, Mr. Jay quit school in the sixth grade and

The mindset, habits, and strategies to being able to create your own life, to rewrite your stars. Season 2 is here! Now I’m bringing guests on to share their stories of how they’ve “Rewritten their Stars” and talking with them about the HOW they were able to do it. Tools, ideas, and more! I share

Mr. Jay is a Betrayal Trauma Practitioner and Intrapersonal Relationship Coach. He holds a master’s degree in education, is ministry credentialed, a certified special education teacher, and author of a children’s book, “I Am Loved Right Where I Am” Jay is also a veteran of the United States military, and Inspirational public speaker, adoptive parent

Betrayal trauma can happen when we feel our employer does nothing to address our workplace abuse situations, and the government invalidates us in the absence of a law to protect us. This type of trauma can feel more personal than other types of trauma. And not only does it set the tone for relationships with

Mr. Jay is sharing how his childhood was anything but a success, but one thing that got him through day-to-day was his faith. He shares how he put himself through school, researching self-help books, therapy, psychology, and spirituality. Mr. Jay learned and stands by his motto: The relationship you have with yourself sets the tone

Have you ever felt lost, confused, unlovable, out-of-touch, angry, or on the verge of losing it all or yourself? Changing all this is as simple as picking up your phone. It is said that the definition of insanity is doing something repeatedly the same way but expecting a different outcome. Is there an area in