Relationships can break you but
even broken crayons still color.

Together let's draw out
the masterpiece within you.

~Mr. Jay

M.A.T. & Ministry Certified, Professional Relationship Coach, Certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner, Certified Special Education Teacher, Author, Air Force/Army Veteran, Inspirational/Public Speaker, Activist, Wedding Officiant, Adoptive Parent & More

Relationships can break you but even broken crayons still color.

Together let's draw out the masterpiece within you.

Mr. Jay

M.A.T. & Ministry Certified, Professional Relationship Coach, Certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner, Certified Special Education Teacher, Author, Air Force/Army Veteran, Inspirational /Public Speaker, Activist, Wedding Officiant, Adoptive Parent & More

WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP COACH?

Relationship Coaches help achieve personal and relationship goals by holding a space that allows the client to reflect upon their own inner dialogue, beliefs, and aspirations. One of the areas of expertise is improving the relationship you have with yourself as that is what sets the tone and standard for all other relationships around you. The goal of any coach is to help you win. As an experienced coach and practitioner I am skilled at finding the barriers that are preventing you from succeeding and will guide you by offering tips and techniques to ultimately help you win at life.

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What is a Betrayal Trauma Practitioner?

Mr. Jay is a certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner. Betrayal Trauma is trauma suffered when a person (on whom you thought you could rely, and deeply trust) breaks or violates that trust . This could be a parent/spouse/boss/sibling/neighbor/friend etc. and could be emotional, financial, physical, spiritual, personal etc. Betrayal trauma is unlike other betrayals due to the fact that it is very personalized/intentional in nature. Learn more about Betrayal Trauma in the video below.

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General/Intrapersonal
coaching

Betrayal Trauma coaching

relationship/marriage
coaching

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About Mr. Jay

Have you ever felt lost, confused, unlovable, out-of-touch, angry, or on the verge of losing it all or yourself? Changing all this is as simple as picking up your phone.

It is said that the definition of insanity is doing something repeatedly the same way but expecting a different outcome. Is there an area in life you are unhappy with? Are there things in your life that you know you want and need to change but not sure where to start? Are you struggling in your relationship(s), your marriage, or single life?

Lord knows I’ve been there. All my life I saw all my friends thrive while I struggled every day just to survive. I was the product of divorce, raised in poverty (on some pretty rough streets) and thrown into special-ed for a minor speech impediment. At fourteen I moved out on my own and after years of therapy, tapping into my faith, self-examination, endless podcasts, books, hard work and determination found the true me and gained a whole new perspective on life.

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We called Mr. Jay when it seemed as though our world was falling apart. We were not even sleeping in the same room. He gave us the tools to communicate better and to get the love back in our relationship. We have checked-in a few times over the years to refresh our marriage and to get it back on track. We have recommended Mr. Jay to several of our couple friends. He is truly talented and truly cares

I have been helped by Mr. Jay for almost a year in various areas of my life. He pulls no punches – asks difficult but good questions – and is direct as not to waste your time. He challenges me sometimes to the point of frustration but then something amazing happens, change occurs. Highly recommend.

I would always hear Oprah talk about “Aha moments” but never truly experienced one until talking with Mr. Jay. With a genuine heart and deep level of commitment, he has helped me work through the rough times and to find joy in life. Thank you, Mr. Jay. You are a true blessing in my life. I don’t know where I’d be today if I hadn’t had your help.

Mr Jay delivered one of the best conference keynotes I've ever heard—enlightening, personable, funny, poignant, and informative. Adding humor and personal stories Mr. Jay introduced new perspectives and creative ideas. With passion and creativity, Mr. Jay shared with a crowd of 550+, the complexities of working with at-risk youth. And bonus points for arriving early to personally meet the attendees.

Mr. Jay delivered the perfect blend of being inspiring, yet very easy to understand. Mr. Jay spoke brilliantly on conflict-resolution, compassion, and left the audience with many tools for dealing with difficult people and situations. Mr. Jay also stayed beyond his time to answer all attendees questions. Highly recommend.

"Mr. Jay is one of the most professional , creative, intelligent individuals I know. He is knowledgeable, motivated, courteous and builds confidence. Mr. Jay relates well to people of all ages and backgrounds, he is simply one of the best and genuine individuals I know."

Betrayal Trauma Practitioner & Intrapersonal Relationship Coach

The Relationship We Have With Ourselves
Sets the Tone And Standard
For All Other Relationships Around Us

Mr. Jay; Trauma Transformer. Together Let’s Get You from Breakdown to Breakthrough, from Victim to Victor, from Hurt to Hopeful, from Tears to Transformation, from Survival to Revival, from Grief to Growth. Become Better, Not Bitter